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constellates) wrote2020-01-25 08:03 am
constellates) wrote2020-01-25 08:03 amic inbox.
ANASTASIA
Hello. Call me Anya. (･ω´-ゞ)^☆
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constellates) wrote2020-01-25 08:03 am
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he told me to check in if i wanted and he'd update me if there was any new info
so i've been checking in
that has nothing to do with any of our other conversations
[dante that's not how it works.....]
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[just. no.]
you cannot ask him to forget mean things that you said
he does not like talking to a lot of people normally
he will avoid talking to you entirely for being mean
that is why you should say sorry
it is related
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are you telling me he's got such a thin skin that he can't handle someone giving him a little shit even though he's perfectly happy to dish it out
i mean you realize he's just as bad right? and i doubt HE'S ever apologized for it
life's a lot easier when you don't care about what other people say to you, he should give it a try
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yuratchka is not mean if he does not have reason
and he was upset because of a mistake that i made
even if he said it badly he had reason
but when talking about the fruit you were not nice to jade and yuratchka both
and yuratchka got unhappy
that is the not so good part
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i made a joke and they both overreacted to it
sucks for them but it's not my fault, they could've walked away at any time
[And instead he had to be the one to finally say "this is out of hand" and stop? That's unusual for his trolling efforts. He's used to getting the last word!]
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and they are walking away
and you do not have answers
yes ?
[is that about right]
1/2
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if they can't take a joke to the extent that they're willing to try and give me the silent treatment like it's some sort of punishment then whatever i don't have time for that shit
[The people he hangs out with off the network are so much easier to deal with. If you go too far, they slug you, and then it's done and over with. None of this passive-aggressive refusing-to-talk stuff where he's supposed to reflect on what he's done or change his behavior.
He'll pass, thanks.]
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they are not giving you the silent treatment ?
but they do not want to talk to someone who was sad unkind things to them
it is not on purpose i do not think
it is just yuratchka
but what made yuratchka mad was dante
yes ?
but anya will give you the answers if you do not want to try anymore with yuratchka
[she just had to make her point first]
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i asked him about the cat AFTER the fruit thing happened and he told me to check back in with him if i wanted an update
if our positions were reversed and i was refusing to answer him would you be saying that "it is just dante"?
all i'm looking for is an answer not a lecture on double-standards
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i did not mean to lecture
but if yuratchka made someone angry that he later wanted answers from
i would say the same
if yuratchka was rude to you
and then wanted something
then it is the same
am i explaining it clearly ?
i am trying
[does anya hold yuri near and dear to her heart? yes. and have they been friends longer than she and dante? also yes.
but she'll call out shitty behavior with surprisingly little bias.]
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yeah i got you
anyways after everything he said to souji i don't feel like wasting my time with him any more so if you're willing to tell me what happened with the stuffed animals from retrospec i can stop bothering and we can all be happier
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( i would say the same for dante )
[alright no one ever said that anya wasn't stubborn, but she also knows that's not what he wants to focus on]
we brought them back to the retrospec building
and then they were sent back to yuratchka
that is all
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Still, at least now he knows.]
i see
thanks anya