well, i didn’t at least not for a while she didn’t tell me about it until you guys had prom because she thought I’d react badly
And...I won’t lie, I did react badly but it wasn’t because they were dating the fact she kept a secret from me hurt a lot i understand what you went through isn’t comparable but the point is...when you keep secrets from friends, it hurts when they inevitability find out it’ll make them feel like you don’t trust them so it’s fine if you don’t want to talk about things at length but if anyone asks, just tell them the truth no secrets, okay? you went through a lot, you got hurt, but you’ll be fine none of this “I won’t make people worry” stuff
no subject
at least not for a while
she didn’t tell me about it until you guys had prom
because she thought I’d react badly
And...I won’t lie, I did react badly
but it wasn’t because they were dating
the fact she kept a secret from me hurt a lot
i understand what you went through isn’t comparable
but the point is...when you keep secrets from friends, it hurts when they inevitability find out
it’ll make them feel like you don’t trust them
so it’s fine if you don’t want to talk about things at length
but if anyone asks, just tell them the truth
no secrets, okay?
you went through a lot, you got hurt, but you’ll be fine
none of this “I won’t make people worry” stuff