if someone asks me i always tell them because i do not like lying but people do not always ask so i thought it is ok to not always say because then they will not find out and they will not need to know about a sad thing
but i think i understand it is hurtful not to know
but aki sometimes people have sad things happen but they do not tell me i think that is okay too if they do not want me to know they might have their reasons
it is not the same ?
[it's a little hard for her to reconcile. she'll tell people things that they want to know now... if they tell her that they want to know. aki, mochi, she will try to tell them from now on.
but she's never been the type to push or demand. should she always be offering up information instead?]
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because i do not like lying
but people do not always ask
so i thought it is ok to not always say
because then they will not find out
and they will not need to know about a sad thing
but i think i understand
it is hurtful not to know
but aki
sometimes people have sad things happen but they do not tell me
i think that is okay too
if they do not want me to know
they might have their reasons
it is not the same ?
[it's a little hard for her to reconcile. she'll tell people things that they want to know now... if they tell her that they want to know. aki, mochi, she will try to tell them from now on.
but she's never been the type to push or demand. should she always be offering up information instead?]